Tweedale. Part 4!

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This is another one of the panels that hosted Tweedale. His contributions were illuminating, as were those of his co panelists. All of the other participants seemed well meaning but I am not sure they have thought beyond #BeKind.

The panel were discussing Faith and LGBT issues at Bradford University. Tweedale turned up in his signature choker with dark glasses and a top hat in view.

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Here’s a link where you can watch 👇.

Faith and LGBT

Also on the panel were a Labour councillor, a Humanist /Feminist and Lesbian, a Catholic teacher and a Few Muslim voices, as you would expect in Bradford.

I was already aware of Dunbar who is very pro what he thinks of as “trans” rights. (He is the nephew of Andrea Dunbar, the playwright). In 2022 he announced he would not be standing at the next local elections.

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Dunbar seems to see everything through the lens of the T, despite being a gay man; who’s very sexual orientation is under attack, by trans ideology.

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Janice Thornton is a committed feminist activist having been involved in a grass roots organisation set up to oppose their local MP, Phillip Davies, who is outspoken in his opposition to feminist voices. She covers this in the talk and it shows a tiny organisation was able to mobilise opposition, to Davies, managing to get a march of over 1400 in a short time. Shipley was the town Womens Equality Party (WEP) chose to launch its first parliamentary candidate. There was local opposition to the decision, by WEP, to field a candidate thus splitting the vote and making it more, not less, likely that Davies would be returned to Parliament; which he duly was.

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Jez Hodgson is a longtime teacher of religious education and, then, the regional cordinator of an organisation called Quest. I looked them up and this is what I found. It is indeed an LGBT+ Catholic group who, in the past, hosted Ruth Hunt, former CEO of Stonewall and herself a Catholic, plus Beardsley who is “transgender” and a United Reform Church Minister.

Two other attendees were the LGBT officers for Bradford University and Bradford College, respectively. Both seem like well meaning, young, people who want to make the world a better place, however misguided I think they were/are.

(NB. It should be “to” not “too”, in the image below. Apologies)

I cover this discussion not to bring opprobrium on the participants but to demonstrate how well meaning people go along with absurdities when confronted with this ideology. Tweedale, a man, introduces himself as a Lesbian in front of an actual Lesbian 😳. This is why we must stop the forced-teaming of the LGB with the T. Heterosexual men do not belong in the Gay Rights movement.

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We also learn that Tweedale is a Pagan, former teacher, and quite proud of his innovative modification to the curriculum; adding Paganism. Claiming that all religions are accepting of LGBT peoples is a somewhat bold claim. 👇

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Then one of the Muslim participants talks about the different interpretations of Islam throughout the ages and how cultural claims can distort Islamic teaching. He is very “inclusive” talking about his gay, Christian and Jewish friends. Unfortunately his “inclusive” stance also includes a tale that there was a “transgender” person who looked after one of the prophet Mohammed’s wives.

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I am, obviously, not an Islamic scholar but I did a search to find reference to “Het” which I may have misheard. He is correct that some cultures found a way of integrating gay men in society, and to a lesser extent Lesbians, by pretending they were the opposite sex/gender. Some of these, muslim led, cultures, for example Iran, do not accept homosexuals, at all, but do accept men and women who adopt an opposite sex role and they also fund “transition” surgeries. It seems to be quite a complex picture. Here, Mohammed, is reported as being uncomfortable with men who adopt a “female” role.

Mukhannathun was also used to describe gay men and people with disorders of sexual development.

State Religion

There follows an interesting discussion about the role of secularism, separation of Church and State and what happens when the State adopts,and mandates, adherence to a specific religion. Tweedale had this to say which put me in mind of the State imposition of the neo-religion of Queer Theory /All things LGBTQ+.

Brexit, Trump and the Far Right.

There is an undercurrent of alarmism about the rise of the far right which, for some participants, is linked to the vote for Brexit. As someone who campaigned for Remain, including in Bradford, this seems somewhat unhinged, particularly as Bradford voted for Brexit and the voters for Brexit included a large section of the Asian diaspora. Tweedale was not the only one indulging in hyperbole on this topic and confusing the political landscape in the United States with that of the U.K.

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Neo-Feminism jumps to Gender Fluidity

Next we hear from a female muslim who is a member of an “inclusive” mosque. First she describes the reaction to a female religious leader who appeared with uncovered hair. Shortly thereafter she burnishes her progressive credentials with a reference to gender identity ideology. LGBTQ+ is merely part of an off the peg list of approved beliefs which allow people to blend a concern about the visibility of female role models to move seamlessly onto a denial that male and female exist. Sigh.

Teaching LGBT + issues

This man is a secular member of the panel who is concerned about the campaign against compulsory sex education in schools, via, he says, powerful Religious Lobby groups. His first mistake was mentioning a member of the demented, Green Party and his second was conflating sex education with LGBT. I can’t be the only person who was very pro sex education in schools who would now be opposed because its a gift to Transgender Lobby groups/proponents of Queer Theory.

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Topher interjects to proclaim a desire to be an activist teacher on LGBT issues.

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The issue of disseminating transgender ideology is clearly extending to different faith communities and here a teacher/youth worker, claims her pupils, mainly muslim girls, chose LGBTQ topics of their own volition.

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It is worth following this part of the dialogue and what is meant by “safe” spaces by this individual. Her perspective is that pupils must be allowed to express their opinions, or their “bigotry” so that they can be led to the sunny uplands of the correct opinions.

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Now the Catholic teacher talks about his experience teaching in Catholic schools and he has an interesting observation on the impact of Section 28. This clearly contradicts the LGBT agenda and even the Gay Rights party line predating the addition of the T.

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He continues on this theme and seems irritated by the assumptions of some the panel about current teaching in Catholic schools. This is an unhelpful narrative for the victimology aficionados who catastrophise the legacy of Section 28, even today, often to turbo charge fundraising.

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Not sure what I think about this. When I was a teenager I went on a Catholic retreat, with my school. We all had to have one to one discussions with a monk /priest about our faith. My interview was a discussion about being an atheist and the idea whether people, like me, without faith have a moral compass. What did EVERY single one of the boys get asked about…?

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You guessed it..their masturbatory habits 😳.

In comes Tweedale, a heterosexual man, to claim he was a hero during the time of Section 28, boasting that he pledged to break the law and he did. There is a strong streak of narcissism in these statements.

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Not content with that bit of grandstanding he claims that he left teaching on a matter of principle and laughably that he wanted to promote critical thinking.

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Something tells me this may not be the whole story about Tweedale’s exit from teaching. In the meantime he is being feted by other organisations.

All of the above puts me in mind of the Late, Great, Magdalen Berns.

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I’m better than you: Jordan Gray

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Jordan Gray has had quite a bit of coverage already, but I have been sent a few links and it seems worthwhile to add a post on the U.Ks Dylan Mulvaney: with added smut. Jordan Gray is a queer theory version of Benny Hill, who is trying to take the man out of Bernard Manning.

He first came to my attention when Channel 4 used him on a reboot of Ben Elton’s Friday Night Live. Elton ( He/Him. Who knew?) hosted and began with an abject capitulation to the show noun nonsense. Gray displayed his hormonally atrophied (I assume) penis and used it to play the piano. All standard fare for the trash tv favoured by Channel 4.

The more noteworthy aspect of Gray’s act was the lyrics to his song, which dripped with contempt for women.The refrain was “Better Than You”. He comes across as an incredible narcissist. The lyrics are illustrative of the way these men express their misogyny. There is a peculiar hatred of women expressed by men who cannot be us.

Educate and Celebrate

Gray was a patron of the above charity (Educate and Celebrate) along with Peter Tatchell, at the time of his Channel 4 appearance,

After his “performance” Gray was removed as a patron for the, now defunct, charity Educate and Celebrate. The charity moved swiftly to deny Gray had been into schools, on their behalf, and sought to disassociate from him.

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Unfortunately, for them, it soon emerged the chair of trustees, Julie Bremner, had promoted his appearance.

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I had a look at their entry on the Charity Commission website and it no longer appears to list their trustees. However, I downloaded them last year to have a look.

This is Julie Bremner and Elly Barnes, taken from their annual report.👇

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Dame Vicky Paterson was executive head of three schools and achieved her Dame hood for services to education.

Remarkably this charity attracted government funding 👇

In a statement,following the closure, of the charity Bremner promised to be back in another guise.

Jordan Gray in schools.

He visited the Passmore Academy for International Women’s Day to inspire the school children.

It was not just secondary schools. He also went into primary schools at the behest of Educate and Celebrate.

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Here is another example of him with Elly Barnes. 👇

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Here he is with trans activist Lady Phyll.

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Even more worrying he claims to be talking to toddlers about this topic.

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Mermaids Fundraiser.

This man also fundraised for another controversial charity, Mermaids. He was in good company having been preceded by John Barrymore and Lorraine Kelly on DigiFest2020.

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Channel 4. BBC Radio 4 and ITV.

After performing his mysogynistic song, Gray bashed a piano with his penis and completed his display with full frontal nudity which not only showcased his penis but also his hormonally induced chesticles.

Channel 4 were very proud of this performance. Here is Alex Mahon defending Gray’s display.

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As if this wasnt insult enough they gave the talentless di** an award.

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Not to be outdone BBC Radio 4 soon jumped on the bandwagon. Having waded through some of his content for the purposes of this piece, I can attest he is extremely unfunny and a bit of a one trick pony.

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Bonus Content.

After I published I was sent this radio 4 show on “Breast Medicine” and of course Jordan Gay was invited to discuss his “breasts” along side a woman who actually had breast cancer and someone who pioneers the use of artifical intelligence to improve detection rates for breast cancer.

Breast Medecine

Somebody also reminded me that he appeared on ITV Transformation Street, where we find him having fake implants in his chest and trying on a wedding dress, for him, not for his fiancee.

Transformation Street

“Trans” day of Visibility.

This is a very revealing interview. Gray claims to be a Lesbian. How hetrosexual men have manged to hijack the gay rights movement will, eventually, produce numerous PhDs.

This man has no intention of removing his penis because his girlfriend likes it.

Here is his advice to others followimg in his footsteps. He makes it clear that everyone else’s discomfort is a price he is willing to pay. People can stand being a bit uncomfortable, apparently.

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He also complains about trans bodies being fetishised unless, of course, that is your thing. Mustn’t kink shame.

Previous attempts to gain fame.

As far as I could see no judges turned around but he seems to have got a place on the Voice in 2016. Worth watching the performance which is incredibly bad. Subsequently I was told that another contestant, allegedly, dropped out for unspecified reasons and this allowed the judges to reintroduce him to the competition. I am not an avid watcher of these kind of shows but I am told this is highly unusual.

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I was not going to write on Gray until this from Joe Lycett’s show. Gray is not only feted by Channel 4, Radio 4 but also by a host of comedians like Lycett, Ritchie Herring, Ben Elton and Russel Howard. This perforance,again on Channel 4, is the mist despicable, damaging contribution to public life i have seen. Imagine making a joke about the thousands of children, irrevocably harmed by gender “medicine”

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You can watch his youTubes below. First up is his contribution to “trans” visibility. Gray On Trans Visibility

Here is his appearance at Passmore Academy school.

At Passmore Academy

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Katie Neeves; UN Women

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I only became aware of “Katie” because he was one of the men asked to represent women at the United Nations. He’s very proud of this achievement. This is him boasting about it on linkedin.

He is not the only man representing women at the United Nations. Monroe Bergdorf, Bobbi Pickard and Pippa Bunce were also delegates. All promoted by the faux feminist charity UN Women U.K. which I cover in this piece.

UN Women U.K. (Faux Feminism)

He also boasted about a speaking engagement on International Women’s day.

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Not to be outdone the BBC, lately the propaganda arm of the trans lobby, promoted another man at the vanguard of the attack on women’s rights. Our Katie was hired by the BBC!

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Neeves also now claims to be a Lesbian and the Vichy Lesbian, Linda Riley, at Diva Magazine, was only too happy to agree.

Dupers Delight!

There is a lot to work with when investigating Neeves. Like many other of these men he is publicity hungry and superficially “honest” about his back story. I sometimes call this “Dupers Delight” . This refers to the dopamine rush when getting away with a lie. The woman behind @TransWidowsVoices goes one better, she calls it “strategic minimisation” and once she named it I couldn’t stop seeing it. As soon as I find myself grateful for any frankness in “trans” narratives, I remind myself I am being hoodwinked.

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Cross-Dressing.

Cross-Dressing usually involves an erotic component and will usually involve masturbating, the borrowed items add to the sexual thrills as does the secrecy. Many men report being able to hold themselves in check for years but something then triggers the need to perform full-time. Sometimes this involves the wife becoming ill or the birth of a child. Often a female child.

Neeves has made a number of revealing disclosures about his previous (current) life as a cross-dresser. Like a lot of these men they often locate this confession in their pre-pubertal existence to deflect from any recognition of any erotic component to the activity. Neeves is one such.

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Neeve’s cross dressing continued with him accessing his sister’s clothes and later his wife’s. Gulf and self-loathing would follow. Like a lot of these men he describes attempts to get this under control until. aged 48, he succumbed to his inclinations completely.

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He also stole his wife’s clothes. Here he discusses it with another male who claims womanhood.

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He went through two marriages over this fixation. He eventually married his second wife in 2017 but it was not long before he made the decision to “transition” full-time shortly after.

He provides more details in this article about creeping into his sister’s room. to steal her underwear and celebrates access to his wife’s clothes on their marriage. His second wife accepted his cross-dressing but only if he kept it to once a week and didn’t want to “transition” . He was also asked to restrict his “dressing” to times when his daughter was not around. He broke every one of those promises shortly after they married. The marriage ended but he is very open about how “accepting” his daughter is and describes taking her with him, while dressed as “Katie”, in the hope of winning his elderly mother round.

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Martin, like many of these men, describes an escalating compulsion he could no longer control. Conveniently these transvestites can claim “Gender Dysphoria” but the real truth is much darker. Gender Dysphoria is the cover story. Envying women is another feature of this fetish. Claiming women’s awards is the ultimate display of male dominance and misogyny.

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J.K Rowling.

Neeves reached out to “educate” J.K Rowling with an open letter, dripping with passive aggression and patronising to a disturbing degree. He tells the egregious lie that her words have directly led to self harm and even suicide.

He mentions her often on the various podcasts.

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His feminine side?

Katie describes the impact of the hormones on his personality. He claims to be more prone to crying especially when watching films with his daughter

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This is another common fantasy in men who larp as women.

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There is plenty of material about Katie on his YouTube channel. Cool2BTrans. These clips are from these interviews linked below.

Interview with a handmaiden

Interview by another cross-dresser

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Un Women U.K. : Pickard 2

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Bobbi Pickard : Part Two

You can read part one here:

UN Women UK: Pickard 1

Bobbi Pickard is a trans-identified man who came to my attention after UN Women U.K. nominated him, and a few other men, to represent women at a conference run by the United Nations. I have written about UN Women U.K. here: 👇

UN Women U.K. (Faux Feminism)

In part two we will look at Pickard’s company and corporate support and examine the role he claims to have played in advancing “trans” rights in complete disregard for the impact on other protected groups and the health of children designated “trans”.

Pickard founded this company, after claiming his woman identity in 2017. It was incorporated in 2022. There’s not much information in the accounts, in terms of donors. They don’t have a huge balance sheet. (There are new accounts due out shortly so I will update when they are out)

They seem to wield rather a lot of soft power rather than financial clout. Here’s on of the directors of Trans in the City. One of them is this Arlene Mcdermott, a Lesbian , who is in a senior position at the London Stock exchange. This explains why Pickard was the first “trans” person to close the London Stock exchange and why they have an annual event for “trans” people at the London Stock Exchange (LSEG).

Pickard’s website for Trans in the City boasts an impressive array of corporate sponsors.

According to his appearance on Gender Nebulous both Clifford Chance and JP Morgan have sponsored conferences /event venues.

Bobby’s own piece on the Trans In The City website shows an impressive array of contacts /supporters in his own right. Of course Stonewall, Diva appear as well as , shamefully, The Lesbian Visibility logo. However, Lesbian Visibility Week, in the U.K. , is the creature of Linda Riley who is Queen of the Vichy Lesbians.

Gender Nebulous Podcast /Youtube

Hosts: Victoria Hodges / Freda Wallace

Link To Gender Nebulous

Freda Wallace should,not need any introduction and I am not inclined to share the photo he posted from a Sex Dungeon, indulging in a sex act. Victoria can be found complaining about Center Parcs policy which decreed that men, who retain their penis, are not allowed to use the changing rooms for women and girls. Wallace is not the interviewer for this piece which was a solo spot for Hodges.

Pickard is not given to attacking “terfs” publicly or making the more outrageous statements. He’s a corporate man and knows how to moderate his tone to wield influence. He’s more likely to let his guard down when talking to other “trans” influencers. Hence this,on the Gender Nebulous podcast, where he can’t resist celebrating the (temporary) You Tube ban for Kellie J Keen.

In this podcast Bobbi talks about being a “trans” activist since the late 80’s, early 90’s and going to “trans” events across the country. It’s not clear what form this activism took, and whether it was merely cross-dressing events; certainly the events were described in terms more suggestive of social occasions, than protests.

Bobbi was on the organising commitee for Cheltenham Pride which attracted a who’s Who’ of Trans activists

In this segment some tension is revealed between Pickard’s organisation and Stonewall. It is alleged Stonewall claimed credit for a campaign that Pickard says originated with Trans In The City. It certainly seems to me that we need to make sure Stonewall don’t draw all the fire when this influential organisation seems to be flying under the radar.

Pickard is keen to emphasise their global reach which certainly seems more impressive than their accounts. (I will update when they submit their 2024 accounts which are due soon).

Pickard has been interviewed by Hodges in an earlier incarnation of his podcast called “Transclusive”. Pickard is very consistent about the role he sees himself playing to advance the rights of sex denialists.

Cool2Be Trans with Katie Neeve.

Katie is another heterosexual man and father who has been invited to represent women at the United Nations. Genevieve Gluck has a thread about “Katie” that provides a good introduction to who he is.

Katie Neeves

Bobbi opens with a story about his childhood and recalls his sitting under his mum’s (not the) ironing board wondering what he had done wrong because his mother didn’t buy him girl clothes and girl’s toys. He also recall, when he was five or six, going round to his nan’s house and raising the dressing up box for wigs and floaty clothes. His parents disapproved so he was reduced to dressing his action man in Barbie outfits. This was, he says, his true self that he was forced to hide away and the beginning of the self loathing and suicidal thoughts culminating in a night spent holding a knife to his throat at the age of 14. He finally “came out” age 48 having married and fathered kids in the meantime; his children are the reason why he wouldn’t change anything. This followed a reported suicide attempt after which he realised he had to “transition” or die. There follows a discussion where they both talk about how amazing gift that is “Gender Euphoria” .Both agree that they would not change their pasts.

Pickard then talks about setting up Trans in the City and coming out as the first “trans” person at BP, where he was a senior manager. The aim of Trans in The City was to get corporate sign up and at the time of this interview he claims to have 250 officially signed up and 300 unofficially aligned. Here is the list on their website today,

He then got involved in the campaign to reform the Gender Recognition Act . He noticed that, while there were excellent campaigns by Gendered Intelligence and Mermaids, there was nothing from the corporate world.

To this end Pickard talks about his role in instigating corporate backing. You will recall that women’s rights campaigners in effect stopped the introduction of Self-ID but Pickard and Neeves are claiming it as a victory for their side.

There follows a discussion about the lamentable situation for “trans” rights in the U.K. and how we are worse than Argentina. After “stopping the GRA” by which he means stopping any roll back of the existing protections for “gender reassignment” he then instigated the “Trans Rights Are Human Rights” campaign. We know, from above, that this was a joint campaign with Stonewall but he gives us a further insight into how that campaign came about. He intended it to counter the Women’s Rights campaigners who were talking “rubbish”. Of course he calls them “anti-trans” and has a sly dig at J.K Rowling.

He then credits Pedro Pino, of google.

He then explains that he was on a panel with Pino and he expressed his anger at the lack of concrete support from global corporates for “trans” rights. At the time Pino occupied a senior role at google. He has now moved onto YouTube.

Pino is a gay man who is completely signed up to the trans cult, here is is with the performative pronouns.

After sitting on a panel Pickard he connected Pickard with Stonewall.

Pino had history with Stonewall having partnered with them in the past.

Journalist, Jo Bartosch, spotted this extraordinary interference in U.K. domestic affairs in an article she penned in 2020.

Big Business and the GRA

Pickard then lists all the other corporates that have come on board with the “trans” agenda. It’s an impressive list.

Neeves then interjects to say he felt the turning point was when the British Army came on board and suggests this was a key lever to persuade Local Authorities to dispense with their fears this was too much of a political hot potato. Below Pickard confirms they have the support of the armed forces along with other corporate bodies.

Neves and Pickard then bask in the warm glow of all the support they have had since becoming full-time cross-dressers. They are certain that the vast majority of people are on their side and not the nasty feminists. They then talk about the need to educate people and how they forgive the clumsy language of neophytes, how noble!

Pickard then explains that this is a U.K specific issue (Go, Terf Island!) and that he runs courses all over the world, including the middle east, and encounters no resistance. (I assume he means countries that don’t allow women and homosexuals full human rights, so that should tell him something.). He is convinced that there only a tiny number of transphobes

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NHS Trans Policy:Birmingham

A look at hospital policies around single sex wards, after the revelation this week that a woman was not only raped on an NHS ward, but then gaslit by the hospital. Imagine telling a victim “you were not raped because there were no men on the ward!”. There were. One of them was a rapist. If you are not aware of this incident I covered it here:

NHS Trans Policy

Spurred on by sheer fury, I will do a series on policies in NHS hospitals. Here is what you can expect in Birmingham.

SupportingTransgenderIndividuals

Here are some lowlights. Firstly it doesn’t just have a policy for people who identify as the opposite sex it is more wide-ranging /inclusive, for which read ”reckless” .

The policy is from 2019 and was signed off by the Chief Executive Advisory Group. I imagine there were very senior people involved in this nonsense. If you are in Birmingham, the policy is up for review in August 2022. Maybe send some feedback?

This is the first lie. The policy lists the legally protected characteristics and claims to uphold them all. The policy does not respect the protected characteristic of SEX. The clue is in the word “inclusive”. The problem with the word ”discrimination”, in the context of these policies, is that single sex wards are, by their very nature, discriminating. We exercised our judgement that women need safe spaces away from the sex class that does 99% of the sex offending mainly against females. We know some males represent a risk to females, so we sex segregate where women are likely to be vulnerable. Females who predate on males are vanishingly small, in number. Labelling excluding the opposite sex with a word, used as a pejorative, denies women’s right to withhold consent. I do not consent to share accommodation with a male, however he identifies, especially when I am at my most vulnerable.

The Trust, in their collective madness, sorry, wisdom, have decided to go beyond the law. Is this an attempt to curry favour with Stonewall, of whose scheme they are a paid up member? The language of ”assigned at birth” is Gender Identity New Speak to describe the process of recognising and recording biological sex. A process which is unproblematic in near a 100% of cases, despite propaganda to the contrary. The Trust also intend to recognise people who claim to be ”non-binary”, ”gender fluid” and ”non-gendered”. It also encompasses staff who demand compliance with their subjective sense of self. A polite fiction is not the same as enforced compliance and this policy demands adherence to the new religion. To which I say #NoThankYou .

The patient’s pronouns must be respected (wait till you see the list 😳). Here the respected medical professionals mean your BIOLOGICAL SEX may impact your treatment. Mother Nature doesn’t give a fig about your ”gender”.

These policies always contain an attack on families. I support my son, thank you very much, I affirm his sex and his sexual orientation and I do not approve of the NHS putting gay boys on the Turing Treatment. Here the Trust clearly intends to stoke family conflict by contradicting parents and other family members.

This section uses the obfuscatory techniques perfected by gender identity extremists. In one breath talking about ”same sex accommodation” but clearly elevating gender feelz above material reality. Heaven forfend the trans-identified person be offended by being offered a single room. No, they should be allowed to ride roughshed over issues of consent and be imposed on other patients. I do not consent to be a validation aid for someone who insists I recognise them as something they are not. Notice the pussyfooting around the new sacred caste.

This bit is bonkers. I am particularly irritated at the casual misuse of male and female. Bad enough the rest of the mangled language. A bearded man in an elevated state of anxiety, possibly with a sexual paraphilia, on a female ward! What could possibly go wrong?

People who are medicating with wrong sex hormones and following surgeries are at elevated risk of being hospitalised. There have already been cases of a heavily pregnant female, where pregnancy was not suspected because she was taking testosterone. She lost the baby because medical intervention was delayed.

Despite claiming to protect ”sex” the hospital allows men into female toilets and changing rooms. This policy also applies to the staff toilets and changing rooms.

Disciplinary procedures will be invoked against any staff member who complains. Patients and members of the public will also be dealt with. The Trust then have the temerity to suggest they abide by the duty to foster good relations between different protected characteristics. The wording below is misleading because everybody is covered by at least three of the protected characteristics. We all have a sex, a sexual orientation and we are all covered if we either have a religious belief or we do not. Not for the first time I don’t think the dversity disciples are sending their best people.

This is an important paragraph. Occupational requirements are how women (mainly) were able to carve out some female only spaces for women who had escaped domestic violence or were recovering from sexual assault. Some roles can be advertised for females only. The erosion of this right, in practice if not in law, is how we find ourselves with a man heading up a Rape Crisis centre, ostensibly for women, in Scotland. The naivete of top decision makers about male compulsion to violate women’s boundaries is so staggering it is criminally culpable.

Another mis-statement of the law appears below. Having failed to pass a law allowing self-identification into the rights of the opposite sex, the solution is to LIE. According to this hospital ”Gender Reassignment” legal protections cover some bloke with she in his email footer. The policy also states that the ”transgender” employee does not have to disclose their identity, which is the mess we got ourselves into with draconian penalties if privacy clauses are breached in the GRA. Allowing someone to conceal their sex was a big mistake.

There are some complicated instructions about how to make sure, when a sex marker is changed, the resulting, new, NHS number is populated with the previous medical history. It seems a reasonable supposition that all this complicates medical treatment in a highly pressurised environment. Blood results for many different conditions tell a different story for the different sexes. We are only in our infancy, for example, in looking at the way heart attack symptoms are different in females. Throw in the complications from taking cross-sex hormones and we are looking at a risky landscape. Many years ago an older male, who defined as transsexual, commented that there was a requirement to sign a document acknowledging SRS had not, literally, changed your sex. Imagine the uproar if this was the case in 2022.

I will leave you with a couple of clips from the glossary and some homework on the pronouns Birmingham hospital staff are expected to get to grips with. Why we are catering to this ridiculous, incoherent, contradictory ideology? I will never understand. It’s collective madness. Caligula would be proud.

Test at the end? My pronouns are F.O. Anyone with a pronoun app on their phone should be shunned.

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Leicestershire NHS Trans Policy.

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Here is the link to the policy produced by this NHS Trust. This one is dated September 2019. There is an updated one.

Transgender and Non Binary Patients – Supporting UHL Policy

You can access the full series on NHS “Transgender” policies at the link below:

NHS & Transgender: Series

This policy is, so far, the most authoritarian in respect of the way it mandates, both patients and staff, to comply with Gender Identity Ideology. We need a woman directly impacted to mount a legal challenge because the NHS must be forced to backdown.

I took the trouble to look at Leicestershire’s published policy on Single Sex Accommodation; which they are required to publish, monitor and have a system to report any breaches.

In that document the Trust include “sex” as a legally protected characteristic but add “gender” in brackets; even though that is not the Law. They claim the document abides by the provisions of The Equality Act but they do not address the issue of forcing women of faith to share mixed sex spaces or, indeed, the right of women to be held in single sex accommodation. This is despite producing a document that claims to be all about preserving single sex spaces. This is the NHS gaslighting women.

They know the actual law because they include the correct list of the protected characteristics within the same document. 👇

In the “transgender” policy they simply lie about the Law and replace “sex” with “gender”. The single sex accommodation policy is very easy to find on their website. It’s also easy to find the new Trans and Non-Binary policy from September 2022. I have downloaded that and will cover it in another post, after a quick look, I can only say it is even worse than the one I am covering today,

The advisor:

For the “Transgender” policy they are keen to advertise the input from a trans-identified male who sat on their Equality Advisory Group.

This would appear to be the Rebecca Shaw they consulted.

Shaw has a twitter account and posts about “trans day of visibility” and the debunking of autogynephilia. The old “my skirt lifted up”; happens to #GirlsLikeUs all the time. 😳

Vagina Monologues

Shaw also took part in a production of the Vagina Monologues and writes about it on their blog.

I like the “because I can” at the end. It has a certain sort of energy.

The Vagina Monologues were considered “transphobic” because these “new women” don’t have vaginas. Productions were halted because they were deemed to be “exclusionary”.

Now it seems zero vagina is not a bar to celebrating what you haven’t got! I like the “because I can!” at the end; has a certain type of energy.The first all male line up was in 2004. This despite the biological fact that none of these men have vaginas! Wherewere all my fellow Liberals, who leap on evidence of “cultural appropriation” when this performance took place.

One of the performers was Marci Bowers, a surgeon who performs the surgery known as “sex reassignment surgery”. Bowers is now the President of the World Professional Association of Transgender Health. Another one was Andrea James who is infamous for waging a hate campaign against Michael Bailey: the author of The Man Who Would be Queen.

The Policy.

The policy mandates the use of the patient’s preferred pronouns and name and warns staff not to make assumptions based on “appearance”. It also cautions staff to use this language even if it goes against the family. The patient is to be asked where they would prefer to be cared for and if it is a female ward, and he is male, his wishes should be respected.

They provide more guidance on this checklist.

The staff are urged to be mindful of discrimination from staff, or other patients, and warned that they should not share details of the patients real sex except on a “need to know” basis. It would be interested to know how rigidly they apply this because symptoms, test results, and medication doses all are impacted by someone’s biological sex. For example female heart attacks are often missed because medical staff are used to the symptoms in males; women present differently. Some measures of organ function are such that a normal reading, for a male, would be dangerous in a female. There has already been one case of a trans-identified female losing a baby because clinicians did not think her admission, with stomach pains, could be labour pains; because she presented and was recorded as, a male.

There is the usual dictionary to educate staff on the new speak demanded by this ideology. As you can see, just like East Cheshire NHS Trust, they include transvestites under their definition of “trans”. I draw your attention to this because, once again, they all seem to ignore the condition of “transvestic fetishism” which is sexually motivated. These men get an erotic charge by wearing women’s clothes and it comes with a side order of boundary violations and a desire for women’s participation in their sexual thrills.

The Trust has a lengthy glossary that includes agender, gender fluid, gender queer and even neutrois. Later they seem to have got cold feet about including “transvestite” and “transsexual” and issue this warning to staff. 👇. Basically they have used the term in their own policy but heaven forfend their own staff follow their own terminology,

This policy is also littered with veiled threats about which hospital policies you may be in breach; should you deviate from this, imposed, ideology. Staff are warned that they could face charges of “gross misconduct” and, even criminal charges for misgendering. This is quite draconian and, likely, outwith the law.

They at pains to be clear they will use the patient’s preferred pronouns etc even with family members. I can certainly understand the position of staff on this one, for the patient, but it seems provocative to stoke conflict with family members. However, an ideological crusuade it is and they also offer this advice, about children, which seems of dubious legality to me:👇. The hospital is instructing staff to expressly go against the wishes of parents even if the child is not deemed “Gillick competent”.

Gillick Competence

The Trust also are on the alert for “spurious” arguments about “discomfort’ to mask their “transphobia”. 👇

I am not surprised at the thinly veiled contempt for women emanating from this policy. The Trust clearly know the legally protected characteristics because they are included in their single sex ward policy. Yet, in the “transgender” policy all of this is forgotten and the Trust resort to blatant lies. The protected characteristic is “SEX” but the Trust use “gender”

So what about the Equality Impact. assessment? “No detriment was identified”.

To add insult to injury, after ignoring the protected characteristic of “sex” they had a special note that all Equality Impact assessments must consider the “trans” experience.

References:

The authors reference the work of Stephen Whittle, from 2007. Whittle is a sex denialist activist having repudiated her own sex many years ago. I think they probably are referring to “Engendered Penalties” which I covered in my series on Whittle:

Stephen Whittle

They also reference the beleaguered charity Mermaids, The Gender Trust, who advised East Cheshire, and Christine Burns.

I will follow this up with the 2022, updated policy. At first glance that looks even worse but I see they have removed reference to “transvestites”.

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NHS Policy ignores Sex! (Part 2)

Those of us who have been looking at Transgender policies, at NHS Trusts, have noticed that they are much more difficult to find. For a previous post, on Birmingham Hospital, I was sent an email copy of a policy which I had not found but was, apparently, available to employees. My suspicion is that NHS Trusts know that women are checking whether they are defending single sex spaces for vulnerable, female, patients. I suspect more of them are restricting their policy to their “intranet” to hide these policies from the general public. The policies for their employees are still mainly available and they tell a diabolical tale.

You can see the rest of this series, including part 1, at the link below. The Trans ideologues have been hard at work for decades and the women’s rights groups are notable by their absence. Men (in the main) have been allowed to write policy that primarily impacts women; just because they claim to have transcended their biological sex.

NHS & Transgender: Series

This policy is from the East Cheshire NHS Trust. I couldn’t find a pdf so I had to screen shot it. This is the link to the policy. Searching the NHS Trust website yields zero results .

Transgender support Policy

I have archived it too. Before I get to the policy see the link to the policy I could find easily. Here the Macclesfield hospital, part of the Trust insist that they operate single sex spaces.

What the trust policy actually says is that people should be treated according to how they identify, irrespective of their sex, which they cover by some guff about genital configuration; as if that’s irrelevant.

The policy drips with the language of the captured; tell tale sign is echoing the belief that sex is “assigned at birth” rather than observed and recorded; which is the case for over 99% of us. The policy is drafted with one group in mind who consider themselves “transgender”. They admit, however, that the policy will impact patients, staff, visitors, and contractors. Females make up 51% of the population but, I suspect,, will we are over-represented in the patient population, Most women will have a hospital experience via pregnancy and childbirth even if they are otherwise healthy. Our longevity also means we are likely to need hospital admission in later years. Did this Trust speak to any women’s groups? NO!

They did get help drafting the policy from The Gender Trust. This policy was drafted over a decade ago.

Part 1 covers The Gender Trust and man behind it.

NHS Policy ignores Sex! (Part 1)

Advice given by The Gender Trust to the NHS.

I should no longer be shocked at the betrayal of women, by the NHS, but, I confess, I was appalled at the gaslighting in this document. It begins by a statement on patient centred care and then pitches the notion of “most persecuted minority” and lays down the law about not tolerating any discrimination; which, I presume, covers women recognising a man’s biological sex. How bigoted!

The NHS Trust do make a statement about their opposition to discrimination on the following grounds 👇. This is a doctored list of the, legally, “protected characteristics” which they list but get them wrong and include “gender” instead of “gender reassignment”. More sleight of hand to come later in the document.

These are the facts about rape in hospitals. In the U.K. the crime of rape involves a penis. These are all Men!

After some stern words about disciplinary measures for non-compliance they move on to a list of definitions. In this section they make it clear they include “transvestites as “trans”. Given we know there is a paraphilia known as “transvestic fetishism” the hospital are recognising men ,with a sexual fetish, under the “trans” umbrella and as “women” according to their wishes.

The document goes on to say that some people may emerge as “trans” overnight. This becomes important because the Trust insist that, even these “overnight” “transitioners”. Note also that the badly worded Gender Recognition Act (GRA) allows a misrepresentation of the law that, in fact, does limit the rights of men, even with a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC) to female only spaces. A right which is poorly tested, via case law, and very much ignored in policy and practice.

There is a long section about the “privacy clauses” built into the GRA and the fines associated with disclosing the sex of a person, if disclosed to you in an official capacity. This, legally mandated, sex denialism, is why hospital staff are obliged to LIE to women’s faces if they see an obvious man in a female only space.

The section on the Human Rights Act (1998) acknowledges that one persons’s Human Rights cannot limit the Human Rights of another group; this is exactly what the NHS is doing here. Letting men’s rights trample over women’s rights. Forcing women to change in front of biological males is a form of torture, and, frankly, sexual assault. This is a reminder that men are treated as the default human.

This next but is contradictory on the Occupation requirements which were designed to restrict certain roles to a particular sex. This was supposed to allow female only rape crisis counsellors and for women to refuse intimate care from men. This is what the Trust has to say. The second paragraph contradicts the first.

There follows a detailed section on the employment of “transgender” people and the process for ensuring criminal record checks are obtained without revealing someone’s sex. I have a long-standing concern that this seems to rely on honestly disclosing your previous names and also, even if they are honest about their previous names, this means they can hide their sex from the employer.

After making it clear that there are no restrictions based on any bodily changes the NHS here mandates that females must accept males in their toilets and changing rooms. To be clear Nurses in my local trust are not allowed to wear their uniform on the way to, and from, work so must change, at work, twice a day.

This is the problem with the “real life test” it forces women to serve as handmaids to these men and validate him as something he is not; irrespective of her own discomfort. No man who really “identified” with women would be comfortable forcing them into this position. It shows a level of entitlement I can only describe as “male”. The sooner the NHS is forced to remove all these policies the better.

After another reminder about the severe punishments for “bullying and harassment” ; clearly designed to override women’s rights to object, the NHS Trust proceeds to explain that a man’s wishes are paramount. (I am saying “man” here because females don’t present the same risk to men and those who insist on being in men’s spaces are placing themselves at risk. At the same time these women are also disrespecting male boundaries).

As you can see the NHS trust prioritise part-time “women” over actual women; the biological and only kind. It gets worse: 👇 I cannot even bring myself to be grateful for the crumbs offered at excluding *some* men from open showers.

Single Sex Facilities.

There follows a long section on single sex facilities. Beginning with this belter. Here “full transition” can still mean the person has “Different genital or breast sex appearance”. This is absolute madness!

There follows a section on times where people will be held on the ward for their sex, in the case of females having hysterectomies who think they are men. It is noticeable that a female example is used here. {What the hospital should really be asking themself is why they are performing unnecessary hysterectomies on young women.}

I wonder how many women are going to be gratuitously offended by this policy of trying to ascertain your biological sex. Women are already being asked for preferred pronouns even while pregnant! Notice also the directive to comply immediately with the patient’s preference to be accommodated with the opposite sex illustrative of a total lack of consideration for female (or male) boundaries.

Apparently if sex is indeterminate it should be inferred from “presentation” and clothing but heaven forfend we take into account the sexed bodies. Imagine waking up in the male ward because you have short hair and wear trousers? Or worse, if you are a woman who has lost your hair because of chemotherapy or your breasts through a double mastectomy; you are already feeling stripped of your femininity and the hospital just compounds matters. I am not saying that the sex of a woman, in this situation, becomes unrecognisable but even to ask these questions, as a matter of routine, creates the potential for real offence and distress.

The next bit is unintentionally “transphobic” and raises issues about the differential of females post testosterone and males. The hospital betrays that it knows men generally don’t pass as women.

This brings us into the difficulty of “trans men” and female spaces. They do tend to pass, at least superficially, as men. Hence all the “gotchas” when people post their pictures and ask if women would be comfortable with these “women” in our spaces. Clearly many of us would not be, just based on appearance; they are likely to disrupt the social norms in female spaces. Which brings me to the difficulties faced by female detransitioners. I already know of a couple who feel like there is no way back and now dealing with a new kind of “sex dysphoria” about their actual sex. I wish I had an easy answer to this that doesn’t add to the distress of detransitioned females. Obviously I welcome then back into female spaces but I can’t undo any physical changes which may mean they are questioned, What a mess!

Parental Consent.

The next section makes it clear that the rights of parents must be over-ridden by the hospital staff if the child wishes it even if they are not deemed Gillick Competent. As mad as I would have been if my son was put on a female ward, against my wishes, my anger would be dwarfed if I were the mum of a girl placed on a male ward. As a parent I would then, potentially, face the anger of the parents of girls who resented my son being was placed with them, against my wishes. There is also an asymmetry, based on sex, here, my son would likely be more safe on a female ward, the reverse would be true for females. Because, guess what? Sex Matters!

The Impact Assessment.

The Trust acknowledges that 51% of the population is female but I can’t see a break down of the sex of its patients but I am going to hazard a guess that women make up the vast majority of their patients; given our longevity.

It then goes through each of the protected characteristics, bar one, to pretend they are in compliance with the Equality Act (2010). Before I get to the most egregious example I just want to say they have not addressed the impact of people with Muslim or Orthodox Jewish women; who are unable to share mixed sex spaces. Neither have they considered the heightened vulnerability of disabled women, forced to share spaces with men, including transvestic fetishists. Similarly for older women they have an enhanced vulnerability and may be deeply distressed by being lied to about the sex of the “woman” in the next bed.

However they sank really low with the omission of any consideration of one of the protected characteristics. They omitted SEX and they substituted “gender” ; making it clear this included “transgender” people. They then have the gall to say this policy will impact positively! I am genuinely unable to contain my anger at this.

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NHS Policy ignores Sex! (Part 1)

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Those of us who have been looking at Transgender policies, at NHS Trusts, have noticed they are much more difficult to find. For a previous post, on Birmingham Hospital, I was sent an email copy of a policy which I had not found but, which was available to employees. My suspicion is that NHS Trusts know women are checking whether they are defending single sex spaces for vulnerable, female, patients. I suspect more of them are restricting their policy to their “intranet” to hide these policies from the general public. The policies for their employees are still mainly available and they tell a diabolical tale.

You can see the rest of this series at the link below. The Trans ideologues have been hard at work for decades and the women’s rights groups are notable by their absence. Men (in the main) have been allowed to write policy that primarily impacts women; just because they claim to have transcended their biological sex.

NHS & Transgender: Series

This policy is from the East Cheshire NHS Trust. I couldn’t find a pdf so I had to screen shot it. This is the link to the policy. Searching the NHS Trust website yields zero results .

Transgender support Policy

I have archived it too. Here are some clips I could find easily. Here the Macclesfield hospital, part of the Trust insist that they operate single sex spaces. This is a deliberate strategy to LIE to women.

What the trust policy actually says is that people should be treated according to how they identify, irrespective of their sex, which they cover by some guff about genital configuration; as if that’s irrelevant.

Quick reminder of the context in which hospitals are lying to women.

The policy drips with the language of the captured; tell tale sign is echoing the belief that sex is “assigned at birth”, rather than observed and recorded; which is the case for over 99% of us. The policy is drafted with one group in mind who consider themselves “transgender”. They admit, however, that the policy will impact patients, staff, visitors, and contractors. Females make up 51% of the population but, later, we will see that they are over-represented in the patient population, Most women will have a hospital experience via pregnancy and childbirth even if they are otherwise healthy. Our longevity also means we are likely to need hospital admission in later years. Did this Trust speak to any women’s groups? NO!

They did get help drafting the policy from The Gender Trust. This policy was drafted over a decade ago.

The Gender Trust

I did a bit of digging on The Gender Trust. It wasn’t entirely straight forward. They do have a website but it contained no link to its Charity status or details of who was behind the organisation. It also appeared to be inactive.

gendertrust.org.U.K.

The organisation. is a trans lobby organisation.

I managed to track down a Charity registration number but, it turned out the charitable registration had been removed, A search on the U.K. register, directly, yielded no results associated with this registration number. I did find this.

There was also a neither charity called The Gender Trust Association. I found a record on Total Giving which liked it to the same website as The Gender Trust but this charity has also been removed.

There appears to have been accounts filed up to at least 2010.

Thereafter no accounts were filed from at least 2015.

I was able to establish that our old friends the National Lottery had given grants to The Gender Trust. You can search their database for those in receipt of grants. It’s a bit of a clunky database but appears to show they had 4 grants, in total, amounting to £138,000.

Another search turned up the name of Michelle Bridgman acting as a spokesperson. This was the only name I could find; publicly linked to The Gender Trust, I searched Michelle Bridgeman. (I also got a tip off that The Gender Trust had been working with the Scout Association and a link to Bridgeman’s own website).

Michelle /Shelley Bridgeman.

Bridgeman has a website. (Thank you to my informant). Here is a link:

Michelle Bridgeman

Further digging revealed that Bridgeman is a heterosexual, married man who had fathered children, before “transitioning”. You can watch a Ted Talk by him and hear about his past as the “effeminate” son of a distant father and how his parents suffered the early loss of a baby girl. I mention this fact because the loss of a sibling, often, one of the opposite sex, seems to figure more than usual in these narratives.

Dare To Be You

Bridgmen talks at length about a court case he was involved in to oppose the requirement to have his marriage annulled, in order to get his “gender” recognised. (Or as he described it “to get equal rights with other women”.) A fight that took over 10 years and would result in a Supreme Court victory.

Bridgend explains he is registered as a counsellor /psychotherapist and works with both adults and children. He also seems to have been somewhat of a media commentator. Of course he appears on Lorraine Kelly’s show; she has been a chief propagandist for Gender Identity Ideology. [Though I believe the Kelly on TV is not the same person as Loraine Kelly, in real life , for tax purposes.]

Bridgeman has also written a book, which I have not read, but if anyone wishes me to review this let me know.

I had intended to do just one post on this policy but it ended up rather long so part 2 will go into more detail about the policy.

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We are the Non-Binaries

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This is a continuance of my series based on the book Trans Britain. I have struggled to whip up enough energy to tackle this chapter because of an innate resistance to narcissists. One of the people featured in this chapter, Meg-John Barker, is familiar to me as someone who was responsible for a bonkers document by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapists (B.A.C.P).

Here is an article about the document, from 2018, the author was one Dr Meg-John Barker.

Women are Vain Except In the North

Here is an excerpt which was later deleted. Does Barking mad Meg thinks Northern Working class women are men!

People who subscribe to this ideology confuse rejecting sex stereotypes with repudiating your sex. At the same time they claim they are in the business of dismantling these self same sexist notions.

Megan John Barker appears to be in a heterosexual relationship with Edward Lord who identifies as non-binary; which did not stop him joining the male only free masons. Here is Mx Lord.

You may remember Lord for making the single sex swimming, at Hampstead heath, mixed sex after launching a faux poll on twitter. A poll he claimed was open access after he he had pre-emptively blocked any women who were not the new inter-Sexional feminist types. Here is Private Eye on the matter.

Lol! Edward Lord O.B.E thinks he’s is dismantling the Patriarchy. These people are insane!

Meg also has a web-site providing a lot of free materials including her section on having multiple personalities or “Plurals”. Feel free to have a gander:

Meg Barker

Let me remind you that Meg was an an advisor to the British Psychological Society. An organisation that I covered in this series. You may remember the BPS advised it’s counsellors to use their client’s preferred title even if this was “slut”.

British Psychological Society

Meg has a number of “plurals” or “alters” including Fox,Jonathan, Robin, Jack, Max and Ara. I am rather relieved that she has given up counselling. I am quite disturbed that she was accredited and is a lecturer. Ben isn’t an alternative identity and is credited in this chapter.

Also included in this chapter is another person I had not encountered before.

Disturbingly Jos was employed by the Tavistock Gender Clinic. How much damage these deluded fools have done to children is incalculable.

This is how they define non-binary. No wonder they claim non-binary is the largest “trans” category; literally everyone is covered by this amorphous nonsense.

I am out of patience with this ahistorical nonsense; which I imagine is perfectly apparent. WOMEN’s parts were played by males because women were not allowed on stage in Shakespeare’s era. 👇. For many years the women who did tread the boards were associated with prostitutes and much maligned. Anyone with a nodding acquaintance with the history of English theatre would be aware of this, but when your movement is a confection all you have is cultural appropriation and lying.

Ironically the very next paragraph cautions against the risk of “reading the present onto the past”.

After a detour to appropriate different cultures who found their own way to accommodate, usually male, homosexuals, the authors return to the British context to name our own pioneers. This was the first time I had come across the superbly named Nat Titman. (I realise my amusement is a tad immature. I blame the backdrop of a carry-on Christmas). Elan-Cane is the woman who wants to have sex obliterated on per’s documents. Sigh.

Despite the nonsensical nature of the NB movement it should no longer surprise anyone that our supine political class have bought it hook, line, and sinker.

The chapter ends with a list of demands which, bizarrely, includes access to medical transitioning for non-binary people. Luckily for the per-people some medical practitioners are ahead of the curve like the esteemed Dr Helen Webberley who still practices medicine in between her periods of suspension. Does this sound like good medical practice?

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Psychological Impact: The Wives

Gendys Conference 1998.

This conference was set up by the Beaumont Society which began as a support group for men who cross-dress, for erotic purposes, and eventually set up a sister organisation (Beaumont Trust) to support the wives of these men. This is an article presented at their conference in 1998.

Diana opens by recognising the gains made by the “transgendered” individuals, in the last three decades of the twentieth century, but laments the lack of recognition of the impact on their partners, almost invariably, wives. Women who are damaged by their association with the cross-dressing men are generally left out of the “brave and stunning” narratives, to this day.

Diana refers to these men as afflicted by “Gender Dysphoria”. and is keen to assure her audience that she is not intending to censure the men in this community.

G.P.s. were apt to dismiss the experience of the women, caught up in these marriages, who find they do not meet with the same compassion as their “transgender” partner. The impact on the wives resulted, in some 100 cases, in a need for psychiatric care. That’s an estimated 5% of those who contacted the Beaumont Trust! This is likely to be the tip of the iceberg as most woman, who knew the origins of the Beaumont Trust, would be unlikely to seek their support. To give Diana credit she doesn’t fail these women and presents two horrific case studies to the Gendy’s Conference. How I would love to know the response from the men present.

Aitchison lays out the background: The wife’s become some sort of “muse” for their husbands. His intense interest in her stems, not from love, or desire, but from a kind of identity plagiarism or identity theft.

She has plenty of experience of the wives experiences, having taken calls from over 2000 women over ten years. The wives who contact her are, overwhelmingly, shocked, many she describes as “frightened”.

For anyone who wants a detour to explore Peggy Rudd’s story, mentioned above, here is her book. I confess I am not tempted.

We can thank Trans Widow’s voices for challenging the dominant image of the “gender dysphoric” subject. Far from being prey to a debilitating medical condition, many appear to be in the grip of a porn fuelled obsession. Their partners /exes are the collateral damage.

So, why are these wives so defeated and traumatised? This 👇 sounds like living with your stalker, but with no escape. These men are practising a sort of vampirism of the soul. Aitchison describes this mimicry as the commonest complaint from wives. It’s clearly not an aberrant minority.

Mrs A : Case Study 1

First is the example of Mrs A. She discovered her husband wearing her nightgown and impersonating her sleeping position. It was not his first offence, He ignored her efforts to complain, sulking if she attempted to remonstrate with him. She ends up deciding to say nothing.

Like many an abusive husband he tortures her with “mind games” and accuses her of being mentally ill. After this gaslighting she does have a severe breakdown. His quest for an “identity” stripped his wife of hers…👇. She was an unwilling role model.

I am no expert on trans widows but I have seen enough parallels with the treatment of domestic abuse victims (which these women clearly are). One of the common complaints is how galling is the assumption that only the weak would fall prey to these men. It’s the same old “Why didn’t she leave him?”. As Aitchison points out the women don’t, at first, realise what is happening and, by then, they are more entrapped psychologically and, perhaps, financially. How many of these men wait until their wife has children and financially dependent before unleashing their paraphilia on their wife?

This comparison took me by surprise. The breaking down of the wife’s will is compared to the techniques for breaking the spirit of a wild horse.

The wives may not even know they are being subjected to this “shadowing technique” , I once, naively, assuming the husbands were not so vile as to deploy this as a conscious strategy to break their wives’ spirit; I now think they know exactly what they are doing.

This is a form of coercive control likely undetectable to the victim let alone an outside observer. Even worse he may look like a devoted spouse and she appears unhinged and unkind.

Barbara’s Story: Case Study 2

Barbara’s story if even more stark. Barbara is anxious to make it clear this was atypical behaviour. Maybe the ones writing to trans widows voices are atypical or maybe these are the ones who have managed to escape? Can we trust public accounts of wives who remain entombed in these marriages? I suggest the correct approach is extreme skepticism.

Barbara’ story gets darker. Her husbands behaviour emerged after the birth of her second child and only four years into her marriage. He also appropriated her night clothes and informed her there was nothing she could do about it, she would remain married to him for another 31 years despite the end of their sex life,

His domestic abuse wasn’t confined to the psychological abuse he was also violent to both her and her son. He displayed a different side to his daughter thereby ensuring he ruptured the bond between mother and daughter. Naturally he also became preoccupied by pornography.

In another echo of domestic abuse scenarios he made sure to cut his wife off from any potential support avenues. After lying to her sister she would be estranged from her for thirty years. He made sure to perform his role, as a loving husband, in public whilst being cold and distant in private. At the same time he insisted on wifely obedience from Barbara. Of course he was a transvestic fetishist, something he concealed from their children. Some of these men are being platformed by women’s rights organisations to the dismay of Trans Widows.

Eventually, once the children had left home she broke down and finally realised she could leave the marriage. Fearful of him she signed over her share of the marital assets but he still sent threatening messages to her and continued to disparage her as “mentally ill”.

He remains in her daughters life as a grandfather and she has discovered he is taking hormones. Barbara has lost any close bonds with her children, one too damaged and one living in ignorance of her fathers true nature.

Barbara now helps other women in her situation. Many are bewildered and shocked and some discover their husbands secret life after thirty years.

Not all the women who make contact are middle-aged some young women make contact. Like Barbara they have young children. At the same time they fear their experience will not be understood or believed.

I suspect the Beaumont Trust was not likely to have developed comprehensive support for the women subjected to abuse by cross-dressing spouses. The Trust was set up to support wives to, in turn, prop up their husbands and is predicated on their remaining with their husbands.

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